Dirty Phone Talk – Tips For Long Distance Relationships
By Chris J Roberts
Dirty talking on the phone can be a wonderful way to maintain long distance relationships. It can also be a simple and thrilling thing for any one at all to try.
Dirty talk on the phone works well for different groups of people for different reasons.
Couples separated by distance may have no other outlet for sex.
People who are shy to talk dirty face to face might find this a less stressful alternative.
It may be an impulse thing, when you use it to flirt, tease or use it as a part of foreplay.
Phone sex is a safe alternative when it comes to relationships with strangers.
Dirty talking on the phone is a way of taking a virtual relationship on the web to a more personal level.
The phone can be a conduit for furthering any kind of relationship, whether recent or years old.
Women, You Have The Upper Hand!
Women have cause to rejoice when it comes to dirty talking on the phone. For some reason, though hardly timid when it comes to sex, men find this harder to do than women and are only too glad to be led. Dirty talking can become a woman’s forte. He is just waiting for you to get the ball rolling.
Tips on Dirty Phone Talk:
Telling your partner I want to dirty talk now may be the wrong move. It may cause them to feel embarrassed or freeze up. You may wind up with a You go first; No, you first situation.
When you call, begin a slow, relaxed, normal conversation. Ask them about their day; tell them about yours? Then start slipping into some sexy talk gradually.
Tell him you missed him. Then start detailing just how and why you missed him.
Tell him what you want him to do to you when he gets home.
Ask him what he would like to do to you or like you to do for him in turn.
Be flexible. Stay open to change and let the conversation lead its own way.
You do not have to stick to any fixed script.
If you do not like four letter words, just use your normal language to describe your fantasy as erotically as you can.
If you do like expletives, use them in moderation rather than make them the main text of your conversation. Launching into it like a foot ball jock with no sensitivity might be a turn off. The point is to be seductive.
Be careful not to use derogatory terms of endearment if your partner finds them offensive. Some people may actually enjoy it. On the other hand, others may find it down right humiliating and resent you for it. This is something you need to find out before hand.
Be Aware Of Your Safety!
When you are dirty talking, be aware of one crucial thing – safety! Like any other sexual activity, it is very self involving and mind consuming.
You do not want you or your partner to crash while driving; be over heard by the boss while at work; or even wander off into traffic or into some dark and dangerous alley because you are not looking where you are going. Make sure all parties are safe before you start.
Now You’re ready, Just Start!
Whether you do it out of the compulsion of a long distance relationship, or just for the fun of it, dirty phone talk can give your relationship a brand new fillip. You just have to try it!